There will be people in your life whom you meet may be nice and friendly to you, and maybe the thought of "Hey! Maybe we can be close friends! ^^" comes to your mind. But in the end, you might laugh at yourself of even having that thought in the first place. Having a close friend aka BESTIE isn't as simple as you thought it would be.
The truth is, someone who says has many besties is a lie. Seriously, when that person gets in trouble, all his/her "besties" will flee away like some mad stampede. No? I'm not saying that if you're having close friends in a group/clique is not a good idea, I'm just saying that in the end, it will still narrow down to that one person whom both of you will go through thick and thin no matter what happens. And that is the magic of true friendship.
"Are you a good friend?"
That is the question. (: Not everybody was born to be the "greatest" friend. (so called "greatest") Not everybody can sacrifice to be there for your bestie. Not everybody. So yeah, you might be one of those hypocrites who is actually a loner inside who befriends people for the sake of being I don't know, popular? I'm definitely not a hypocrite so I wouldn't know how one would think.
Okay, maybe not all hypocrites are true hypocrites. Some may really have besties. BUT... They pretend to be nice and like someone whom they actually don't. And the worst thing is, they talk behind the person's back! Now that's what I call mean. I don't vouch for talking bad about people aka gossiping. I mean I will listen and maybe have lots of "Tsk tsk" in my head but I don't think I will say much. (I hope I didn't. I hope I didn't get swayed by influences of those hypocrites.)
What's wrong with trying to like someone for who they really are? I would definitely give it a go to like someone whom everyone dislikes and makes him/her lonely. I would be that person who will be different from everyone else. I wouldn't mind people hating me too because I don't want another person to feel lonely.
Well I'm not saying that if you don't friend someone, you're a hypocrite or something because I know some people just cannot click together. It's like as if they were like poles and will repel each other instantly.
And I really hate it when someone pretends to care when he/she apparently doesn't and maybe puts up this pretence because he/she is a busybody with nothing better to do. Or, he/she simply don't understand anything at all.
Some people also ought to learn the meaning of "privacy" and "letting go" and not take control because of some certain status of someone. That's what I feel. But so sad, these people still win anyway.
Not that anyone shouldn't trust people anymore, but more of being cautious about certain people who might just make use of you in any way. I don't know. (I'm not you.)
So that's about it. I have nothing else to blab about. Sometimes I think I amaze myself of certain words I might use just because I hear them somewhere. Hmm... And I really think my vocabulary fail. :D Not bad, not bad. (:
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